6 Years on WordPress


Yay to me!

But boo to my posts. I don’t have enough posts here and I feel guilty that it’s been 6 years already since I’ve started writing something on the top of my head.

I’ll make it up to you. I want to try to make things work by writing some more articles then let’s try to see if I’ve been able to achieve something out of nothing on WordPress. I don’t know what are the achievements that I can win by blogging every week or almost everyday, but I’ll still try to keep it up!

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Thank you for Grinning with me!

The Biggest Regret


I have had the biggest regret in my entire life. And it’s you. It’s always been you. I don’t know if it’s forever, because you know what they say, “there’s no forever”. But anyway, you’re “IT”. This throne will not be taken away from you. I can’t guarantee anything but as of this moment, you own it.

I don’t know if you are going to be able to read this. It’s okay if you didn’t. It’s alright if you did. In any sense, this is for you.

We’ve never spoken again ever since and yes, I still feel bad the way that I treated you. I’m not totally honest with you and for the record; I didn’t play with your feelings. I told you anything that I could possibly think of so that you’d know my side of the story. Maybe I don’t care if you believe me or not but at least I told you my part.

I know it doesn’t make any sense at that time. I thought that I’m ready again but I’m not. Maybe I’m scared enough to tell you that what we have going on is a good thing for me. You were there for me when I needed someone. You have been there for me, without asking anything in return. Thank you and I’m sorry.

It’s been tough on you. You just wanted me to be happy. I didn’t give you the happiness part. Instead, I hurt you. Again. For the nth time. I have decided to leave you be. For good. I’ve been saying this for so many times now and I still can’t seem to move on. That’s the reason why I have given myself a deadline, that I need to stop bothering you if you have a new girlfriend. Even though you don’t have one right now, I’ll try to start to stop.

It’s been a while since I’ve remembered how happy we were when we’re together. It’s the greatest thing that happened to me. There’s never a time when we have the longest fight.

Hey, please… do me a favor. I know you’re now happy with your life and you’re trying to move on. But please, for me… find the girl of your dreams or wait for your fate to come. Maybe this is not yet the right time for you… and we never know what comes next.

Pick the most beautiful girl that will make you wish why you have never seen her before. Choose the one who’ll make you a hundred times more confident about yourself. Love someone who will also love you the way you love her. Be with her for the rest of your life. Right there and then, I’ll be able to let you go and move on, because I know someone else is gonna make you the most luckiest guy in the whole world.

Make sure that I’m nothing like her. Make sure that she’s the one. Make sure that you’re gonna take care of her. Make sure to not compare her with anybody.

And make sure that you’ll never let her go this time. No matter what. Fight for her. Don’t ever give up!

I’ll be glad to see you with someone who’ll put a smile on your face instead of someone like me who’s not worth your time. I’m not worthy of your time and effort. So choose wisely, listen to your heart then let your mind show you the path that you should’ve taken in the first place.

I don’t want us to have any bad feelings for each other anymore. I know it will take time and I’ll take my chances. I’ll wait for us to be friends again.

bear

“I have loved you. I did my best…” – The Theory of Everything

5-Month Goal Challenge


Maybe that’s the reason why I’m not confident… and it’s about my insecurities. I’m lying to myself too often that I might forget who I am really are. Or were.

When it comes to physical appearance, I can quite say that I’m not like before.

My face is now round like a watermelon. My arms are like cucumbers that’s pathetically way out of measure. My stomach does look like a big bulge and I can’t easily remove it. My thighs are like swollen eggplants all the way down to the feet. My hair is not shiny as it used to be. My face is a little bit of a haystack… full of needles. I hate everything about me. Now.

Yeah, I’m fat. This is not the chubby type for me.

I weigh over 65 kilos(I’m 50 kilos before.). And I don’t know if our tape measure can even measure my waistline anymore. I don’t like where this is headed but it sure is difficult to explain and even mutter in my head.

I’m too depressed. I don’t like anti-depressants, not that I’ve taken some pills before but as what I’ve checked on some movies, it will make you more insane (already am, thank you very much.).

I don’t want to talk to a psychiatrist either since they don’t know what I’m going through and they’re strangers to me. They will just say things that you wanna hear. Maybe. I don’t know exactly what it feels like. In any case, I’m too bored. I’m too lazy to start working out.

Others say that maybe I’m pregnant. I know I’m not. I can’t be. But it still hurts to hear them say that I look like that I already have a bump and I need to get ready for baby stuffs. No, no, no!

I must do these things in order for me to feel better.

This will be my 5-month goal challenge. To be able to cosplay, “Alice Madness Returns” on October 2015.

  1. Eat fruits – banana, apples, watermelons(these fruits usually are easy to buy from the market)
  2. Eat rolled oats in the morning after shift – better to have fiber in the body
  3. Do some crunches – start with 20x a day then add another 2 on the next day, and so forth
  4. Eat less rice – DO NOT EAT AT ANY EAT-ALL-YOU-CAN-BUFFET or UNLI RICE eatery
  5. No sweets – discipline myself from eating too much chocolate, cakes, doughnuts
  6. Drink water – I’m not a fan of drinking water, but I have to do this for at least 3 liters a day!
  7. Sleep a lot – I’m also not a sleeper but I have to and it will prevent pimples as well
  8. Calamansi – have to put calamansi on my face 2x a day. Need to have an umbrella for protection
  9. Relax – to achieve this 5-month goal, I need to breathe. Calm my mind and heart from worries
  10. Love myself – I have to be confident about myself. Love my body. Love everything about me

If I’m not able to follow all of these and I failed this challenge… I’ll be damned.

I need to do this for myself. People who are dear to me expects me to change for the better and not for the worse.

I know I can do this.

Think positive!

alone


i hate that i love you.

do you feel like being alone is the best thing that you can do for yourself?

they say that being alone is much better to be with someone who makes you feel that you are always alone.

in every effort. in every tears. in every moment that you wanted to get out but you couldn’t. you can’t. you shouldn’t. you shan’t. you wouldn’t. you won’t.

Still awake


right now, i don’t see the point why im still awake? 

I cant see the point why i dont want to sleep. My eyes are puffy. My head is too strong and its keeping me awake… Why is that? 

I cant sleep. I have dreamt about the things that i want to do later and i have dreamt about my addiction. Gaia Online. One of my favorites… Sigh. Im also thinking about what i should do with my life… And why im sulking right now. I dont want any pity, i just want to blog this out… 

Im not smart but im not that stupid either… I dont know what im talking about right now… I dont know what’s gotten’ up in my head. 

I feel like im being numb. I still dont know what i really want. Still dont know. 

Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless Mind


“How happy is the blameless vestal’s lot. The world forgetting, by the world forgot. Eternal sunshine of the spotless mind. Each prayer accepted, and each wish resigned.”

one of my favorite movie.

it’s so sad, isn’t it? being forgotten by the most important person in your world and just like that…

you are not remembered.

why would you think that you will get bored of someone that you once loved? or are you just experiencing a post-traumatic disorder where you realize you wanted to be alone, without him/her in your life?

have you ever ask yourself… do you really love the person? because if you do… you must be committed in every way you can to make them happy. yes. sometimes it will be rough. you will encounter hardships along the way, and it will not be the fairy tale that you wanted it to be. it can be, if you work on it.

when i watched this movie for several times now… they have this recording of one another on how bad they feel going through the procedure because they want to forget each other. Clementine and Joel are both incomplete. especially Clementine. She don’t know herself anymore. it’s like she is not the Clementine that she knew. it started when she’s with Joel. Joel’s life, as he always states, is not interesting. As Clem told Joel that her life is an open book to him, but Joel never shares any personal details to Clem. They’re not that open to one another.

Clementine is the one who did it first. The whole erasing him thing. Joel just did the procedure because he can’t take the pain anymore. he’s confused. he must really love her to the extent that he don’t want to lose her and he kept on running away with her on his memories while he can to suppress the memory of her. while the guys who does the erasing thing, Joel fights back. he doesn’t want it. he can’t. it’s already done. it’s too late.

in this case, when Joel woke up, he didn’t remember anything about Clem. every piece of her in his apartment. gone. every memory, good ones and bad ones. gone. i thought that it’s over. but fate will tell you when it is over. you will have your second chance. just make sure that it will work for good. it’ll still be hard but as long as you’re in it together, nothing will go wrong.

if you really are meant to be, chances are, fate will bring you back together.

it came to me in the most obvious way… that love can be challenging. you thought that you’ve met the most undesirable person in the world just because he didn’t meet your standards. but did it ever occur to you that maybe you have to change something in yourself too? that maybe you’ve been this unkind person as well and you also thinking that you are doing just fine, but the truth is, you’re not. sometimes we believe that we’re not doing anything wrong and we must not care what other people think just because you know you’re not doing anything wrong. that’s not how it works.

if you know that someone is hurting because of your doings, are you still going to continue the way you handle things? well, think again. what if that person is doing the same thing to you? and deep inside you really don’t like it cause you’re hurting… ​

be respectful. be sensitive. be mindful that your mind doesn’t fit other people’s minds. we have our own beliefs. as long as you know that you’re not stepping on to someone, then everything should be fine. that’s how you are going to be remembered.

in my part, i’m just quiet. well, sometimes i’m not. i can be cruel. i can be rude. i can be this monster who’ll not be satisfied with what i already know. i’m like a detective. i know what you are doing and what’s going to happen after you did it. every event are unpredictable. inevitable.

Greedy


i’m still the same, selfish as i can be. i’m greedy. 

i don’t know how to understand it myself. how can i be that greedy to the person that i love the most. it’s not what i wanted to do, but i already did it… 

what can i do to prevent it from happening again?

i’m sorry dude.